I Did It. I Wrote My First Book.
#51 People say kindness makes you weak. I say it makes you unstoppable.
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Now jumping into today’s blog:
Maybe you’ve dreamed of starting a passion project, writing a book, launching a business, or simply committing to something meaningful—but doubt keeps creeping in.
I get it. Because I’ve been there, too.
"Son of a Viet Kieu – German Heart, Vietnamese Soul" isn’t just a book. It’s my journey—growing up between two cultures, feeling like I belonged to both yet neither, and ultimately finding my way back to my roots. It’s a story of reconnecting with my parents, understanding their struggles, and redefining what home really means.
But let me be real with you: Writing this book was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.
When Doubt Tries to Stop You
Motivation wasn’t enough. Some days, inspiration flowed effortlessly; other days, I stared at a blank page, questioning everything. Who am I to write this? Will anyone even care? Imposter syndrome whispered doubts in my ear, making me feel like I wasn’t good enough.
If you’re in your 20s, navigating school, work, or passion projects, you’ve probably had similar thoughts. You scroll through social media, seeing people achieving great things, and it’s easy to feel behind—like you’re missing some secret formula for success.
Let me tell you:
There’s no secret.
Everyone who achieves something worthwhile has faced doubt, fear, and setbacks. The difference? They kept going.
The hardest part wasn’t just the writing—it was reliving moments I had buried deep, facing emotions I had ignored. Some chapters felt like therapy; others felt like reopening old wounds. There were times I wanted to quit, to escape the discomfort of confronting my past. But growth doesn’t happen in comfort zones.
Maybe you’re chasing a dream—whether it’s starting your own business, launching a creative project, or just figuring out what you want in life. The process will be messy. You’ll doubt yourself. You’ll wonder if it’s worth it. But I promise you—if you push through, if you stay disciplined, you will make it.
The Truth About Success: It’s Built on Habits
What helped me push through? Discipline.
The small, consistent habits I built using insights from Atomic Habits changed everything. I removed distractions, invested in a digital notebook solely for writing, and committed to a routine. I didn’t wait for the perfect moment—I created it. Because big goals aren’t achieved in one giant leap; they’re built step by step, habit by habit.
Think about it. If you go to the gym once, nothing changes. But if you go consistently for six months, you see results. The same applies to everything. You don’t have to write a whole book in a month. You don’t have to have everything figured out by 25. Just start. Take one small action today, then another tomorrow. Over time, those small actions compound into something big.
And now, holding this book in my hands, I know every struggle was worth it.
A Heartfelt Thank You
To my parents—thank you for giving me life and planting the seeds that allowed me to navigate and appreciate different cultures. Your journey shaped mine, and I am forever grateful. I used to struggle with understanding you, with the generational and cultural gaps that sometimes felt impossible to bridge. Writing this book helped me see you in a new light, to understand the sacrifices you made.
To my wife—my biggest supporter, my greatest teacher, and my rock. Your belief in me never wavered, even when mine did. The days I wanted to quit, you reminded me why I started. Thank you for always seeing the best in me.
To my mentors, coaches, and friends—your guidance, encouragement, and support carried me further than you know. Every conversation, every lesson, every push forward made this possible. To those of you who simply listened when I doubted myself—you mattered more than you realize.
And finally—to myself. For daring to reflect, to face my past, and to put my thoughts and emotions into words. For not giving up, even when the finish line seemed impossibly far away.
What’s Your Big Goal?
If you have a dream—whether it’s writing, starting a business, or anything that feels overwhelming—know that the path won’t always be easy. But step by step, habit by habit, you can make it happen.
Break it down. Stay consistent. Trust yourself.
One year from now, you’ll look back and realize just how far you’ve come.
So tell me—what’s one big goal you’re working on? Drop it in the comments, and let’s make it happen. 💪🔥
You want to have a look at “Son of a Viet Kieu” as a E-Book or Paper Book? 💕
Check it out here: My first book!
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